meme…
March 18, 2009 by: Dave Ozment
This strange new world of blogging never ceases to amaze me. I have struggled, offended, and learned through this creative process. I’ve made horrible assumptions and have also – already – made great connections and have received very rewarding and encouraging feedback from my small but mighty group of readers.
Perhaps the single lesson that has come to resonate with me is the value of “The Link”. I implicitly knew this as I embarked on this journey but I know of it explicitly now. I once viewed Link Round-ups and content references as friendly pats on the back, but I now view them as PURE GOLD!!
And so this ‘link is currency’ model becomes its own economy complete with its Haves and Have Nots. Soon emerges the sub-economies or niche markets and that is where we find ourselves today. Engaged in a friendly and fabricated Link-Fest known as a “meme” and (hopefully) loving every minute of it!
My new friend Trevor – the original Financial Nut - has “tagged” me in this blog version of a chain-letter. A pretty good definition is available courtesy of Sire - (hey, with his link in the ‘boilerplate’ for this game, isn’t he the ultimate winner?… I challenge future participates and borrowers from my ‘new’ template to use my site as the new definition site!!)
Ok, so this is sort of a ‘tag’ game bloggers play to help build community and to exchange links. Sounds good to me, so I’ll play along.
The rules for this edition are pretty straightforward:
1 – Link to your original tagger and list these rules in your post – just to be sure…Financial Nut tagged me
2 – Share 7 facts about yourself in the post
3 – Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names and links to their blogs
4 – Let them know they’ve been tagged.
Makes sense… I’ve actually never participated in a ‘meme’ so this should be interesting…
So here goes, Do You Dave Ramsey’s initial “meme”, take 1…
1. In Junior High, I once spent a full day in “in-school” detention for selling dirt in Science class. To this day I believe Ms. Dukes misrepresented herself when talking to the Assistant Principal and that is why my punishment was so steep.
2. My very first car was a 1965 Ford Mustang… looking back, it was such a heap. It was an in-line 6 cylinder that really only ran on 4. In the winter it would take 20 minutes for it to warm up so that it would go faster than 10 mph. But it was red and I loved it.
3. I’ve already shared that I’m a Harley rider. This fact never fails to surprise folks that I encounter at work. I suppose (and I’ve been told) that in a business setting I often have a professional persona that just does not reconcile with the Harley image. But what you don’t yet know is that my worst financial decision involves my purchasing a used Harley with a credit card. I actually have this post ‘in the can’ and scheduled for release so you’ll have to check that out for more details. As a bonus while we’re on this topic… I have a thing for collecting Harley shirts from the various dealerships. So far I have a not-so-frugal collection of over 60 shirts from such locations as Hawaii, San Francisco, Aruba, and England. I also have shirts from Custom Bike Builders like Jesse James, Matt Hotch, Arlen Ness, Hank Young, and Chica. Clearly I have a weakness in this area!
4. I absolutely hate having to show my receipt and merchandise when living a warehouse store like Costco or Sam’s. I’ve asked multiple folks including Costco Corporate why they have this practice in place and I get the same two phony responses – 1) to ensure that the cashier rang everything up and that I am not being overcharged – which requires me to believe that the receipt checker has a Rainman-like ability to instantly identify an incorrect price – which further makes me wonder why all these door checkers aren’t working for NASA… or 2) to ensure the cashier isn’t ripping me off by keeping my merchandise after ringing it up – which makes we wonder why I’m shopping at a den of thieves.
5. One night in college I ate an entire bucket of KFC original recipe and then the next morning ran more laps or a further distance than I had ever run in my life up till that time. I only stopped running because I had to get cleaned up for class. I called it the “Power of the Chicken”. Alas, I’ve never been able to recreate the second part of this event.
6. I once had a wonderful conversation with the COO of one of the major credit bureaus as the result of a ‘colorful’ letter I had written in trying to clarify an ongoing confusion over certain contents on my report. Now before you get the wrong idea, my letter was colorful because it was challenging in a comedic manner rather an offensive way. In fact, we both laughed at my jokes after resolving my issue and then discussed Aruba from where he had just returned from vacation and where I honeymooned with my wife… oohhh, a two-fer
7. I was in Miami on the beach when the calendar flipped from 1999 to 2000 with a great friend and his then-girlfriend. Just after the New Year swept the east coast someone snapped a picture. My friend’s girl-friend’s sister saw the picture and this lead to our dating for a short while. However, during this time – stick with me – I became better friends with the girl-friend such that when this couple got married and I randomly met one of her long-time friends at the reception, she was able/willing to give a ringing endorsement on my behalf to her friend which led to our dating and eventual marriage in December of 2004. I love to reflect on how improbable events fit together to weave the fabric of our lives.
So that didn’t hurt too bad. Perhaps more than you wanted to know, but nothing bad. I’ll save those facts for after my current job search… just kidding HR Professionals doing your investigative homework! I’m really a great guy and would make a wonderful addition to any workplace!!!
So here’s my list of victims, er, blogging friends who I am tagging as part of this endless meme!
1. Sean at Blogopolis Blueprint (but you also have to check out his fantastic work at Writer Dad)
2. Jason at Frugal Dad - he cemented my motivation to start blogging (don’t know if he knows that)
3. Eric at Motivate Thyself was an early supporter of my endeavor and has provided me with great advice along the way
4. glblguy at Gather Little By Little runs a great site, I love his blog’s name and message and greatly appreciate his offline support
5. Jeff at My Super-Charged Life has one of the slickest layouts I’ve seen. I love the rotating headlines! Hey, he’s a cool guy too!
6. Sandy at Yes I Am Cheap stumbled upon my site and has been very supportive. You must check out her site to see how she is flat killing her pile of debt! Go Sandy!!
7. Stephen at The Rat Race Trap may have been my first reader/commenter that didn’t already know me. His early words of encouragement meant more than he knows.
If you guys choose to participate, GREAT! If not, I totally understand!
As a creative addition to this adventure, I add the following challenge in closing. If you learned something you now appreciate about me, I challenge you to do 3 things 1) subscribe to my email or RSS feed, 2) comment about it below sharing something neat about yourself, and 3) tell someone about this post and encourage them to act on this same challenge.
Thanks!!
Dave
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I had a great time reading your meme. And I also ask myself why before leaving the supermarket, they would check your receipt when in return they won’t be able to check everything that’s in the grocery bag. Very ironic.
Maybe it wasn’t the KFC bucket alone, but something you ate in combination with it that produced the magic formula. Also, maybe it had something to do with the time in the day that you ate it. You should try again to reproduce the effect, recreating every factor that you can remember. With the millions that people spend each year for something to give them energy what if you’re this close to a breakthrough!
life sure is awesome sometimes! love that story of how you met your wife…i met mine @ a bar when she asked me where the bathroom was
oh those sweet words i shall not ever forget….
Great story… I bet you grin every time you hear it or ask it.
Whew! You tagged me so I did it! I have to say, I had a hard time figuring out who you married. Was it the sister or someone the sister knew or was it the best friend’s girlfriend? Somewhere, somehow you did marry someone.
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LOL, very funny… I read and reread it as I typed and retyped it… at least it made sense in my head! Yes, I married someone!
Wow, fast turnaround… I can’t wait to give it a read!
No worries Dave, they reckon you feel a lot better after purging yourself of built up emotions.
Anyway mate I reckon your school got it all wrong, they should have rewarded you for showing, what was for your age, rare marketing skills. After all, it wasn’t like you were selling anything illegal, and when it comes right down to it there is no law against selling dirt.
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Yes, my burgoning entreprenueral spirit crushed by a mean spirited science teacher…
Hey, when you made you millions you should go back and see her with a big bag of dirt and say how it was due to the punishment meted out to you that enable you to make a fortune in selling dirt and how you would like her to accept this bag of dirt as a token of appreciation.
Love it! Great Meme, Dave.
Trevor @ Financial Nut’s last blog post..AIG CEO Testifies On Capitol Hill: Liddy’s Got His Hands Full!
Thanks Trevor, I’m glad you enjoyed it… after all, it is your fault!
Dave
Hi Dave,
You jumped aboard the meme wagon way earlier than I did. Good for you! They are a lot of fun and a great way to build a budding community. I enjoyed your meme, well written and engaging as it was. Have a great day, and I’ll see you next week when I Momma Meme-a myself. Have a great day!
Thanks Sean, I appreciate the positive feedback! I look forward to reading yours next week!
Dave
Dave,
Great stuff. I have a standing life rule that I learn at least one new, big thing each year of my life. And for 2009 it is how to ride a motorcycle. You’ve provided additional motivation!
Thank,
Brandon
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Thanks TAM! I love you’re life rule about learning new things. You’ll have to post something on this as I’d love to hear more about your selection and execution processes.
I also commend you on wanting to learn to ride a motorcycle. You’ll have a new appreciation and respect for these things on the roads once you’ve been in the saddle. I’d recommend you find a safety class. I still remember lessons I learned in a class 15 years ago. The one I attended provided the bikes so that was cool.
I’m full of other ideas and advice but I’ll save that for when you get going. Do keep me posted. Respect the bike and assume all other drivers are out to get you and you’ll do ok. I’ve never done anything that has overwhelmed me with the sense of freedom as hitting the open road. It never gets old!
Thanks!
Dave
Dave,
I will assume that everyone on the road is trying to run me over, safety first. My uncle was a motorcycle cop for 30 years and has a Honda 750 I plan to learn on. I am probably going to take a class at the local Harley shop too.
2008 was learning Spanish…I’ve gotten good, but this goal has stretched into 2009 as well. It is harder to pick up in your 30’s than you would think.
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Man, that was a great read. It’s interesting to see how the meme travels from one blogger to the next and the manner in which the use it for a post. I have a question about the dirt fiasco. Did you actually ever sell some and if so how much did you get for it.
Oh, before I forget, thanks for the link, it was much appreciated.
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Thanks Sire, I appreciate your feedback! I imagine thises links have taken you on a great ride! I was kidding (mostly) about the boilerplate link, ha!
Yes! I did sell some dirt! …and you’ve done it now, I have to tell the whole story. We’re talking 7th grade life sciences many many years ago… we had a project in which we would bring in some dirt, weigh it, take it home and bake it, and weigh it again the next day. The idea was to prove that there is moisture in dirt and that by baking it out we’d be able to determine the % weight of the moiusture.
Being a boy that loved to play in the dirt, I knew there was moisture in dirt and I found the entire exercise pretty silly and in an impestuous moment I expressed that to the class (and teacher) and commented that this is the type of assignment that people would forget and that I could make some money if I were to bring in extra dirt. Ms. Dukes hated my comeback but agreed with my conclusion.
All was well and the next morning – I had this class first period and wanted to move my inventory early in the day. In homeroom I sold 2 extra sandwich bags of dirt and in a stroke of genious I used that profit to buy a big bag of dirt from someone else chasing my idea. I subdivided that bag and doubled my money. Now we’re only talking a couple dollars here but in 7th grade currency that was more than 2 weeks of ice creams with lunch!
And all was great until Laura Street mentioned how I ’saved’ her before class because she had forgotten to bring in her dirt. Ms Dukes then told the Asst Principle that she told me NOT to do it and the rest is history.
Ha, thanks for forcing me to relive that!!
Dave